“We are responsible for our own behavior. But we are not responsible for other p… January 6, 2021 admin Post in Recent Reviews “We are responsible for our own behavior. But we are not responsible for other people’s reactions; nor are they responsible for ours. Women often learn to reverse this order of things: We put our energy into taking responsibility for other people’s feelings, thoughts, and behavior and hand over to others responsibility for our own.” This is the first time I’ve ever picked up a self-help book from the 80’s and went, “holy sh*t – how did she know?!” The Dance of Anger is a book on women’s anger – how to understand it and use it as a tool to change toxic patterns in our closest relationships. I saw myself in each of the women’s stories, and feel that I have new tools at my disposal. Highly recommend this and anything else you see by Dr. Harriet Lerner. //Theresa . ..📚.. .